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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think OP is the horrible one in this situation. Yes, it's great that the child is growing up with someone who loves and cares for her. But it's still astonishing to hear that a fully capable human just abandoned his child. People keep bringing up situations of drug abuse, jail, mental health issues, apparently none of which apply here. He just... didnt want his child. That's definitely judgement worthy. I don't think I could be friends with someone like that. I'm glad he had a vasectomy and will not be abandoning any more children. [/quote]

People are giving all kinds of examples that do not apply to this. He wasn't a teen with an unwanted pregnancy.

He was a man who decided to have a child with his wife. After a year she was killed in a car crash. He could have easily asked that aunt, anmd other family to help him. Instead, he wanted zero ties, legal, financial etc. Thus adopted her out. You are right, as a society we should look down on any parent who behaves that way.[/quote]

Instead you can see that most people are looking down on you.

Do better.[/quote]

[b]NP. No way. This man is a piece of shit.[/b][/quote]

No, he's not.  He did the right thing.  The child has a new mom who loves her.  I applaud him. All children should  be raised by people who want them.  The horror stories I hear from my sister who is a family therapist would keep you up at night. [/quote]

I think you missed the point. He’s a piece of shit because he didn’t want his child. [/quote]

So he should have kept the child to about judgment from old white ladies instead of finding a better home for her? That doesn't help anyone.[/quote]

No, he did what is right for the child but he is still a piece of shit. His child won’t talk to him because he abandoned her.[/quote]

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