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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with his core premise—- it’s much better , in most cases, for a child to be raised by parents/grandparents vs daycare. Universal daycare is what is eww in this discussion. [/quote] I do too. Totally. I would also like to point out that this audio is clearly edited... who knows what is spliced or missing. And, it is an article from Salon, so that makes it even more questionable. Having said that, if advocating for having a grandparent assist with the care of a newborn infant is misogynistic, call me a misogynist. I like when he pointed out that she could have just continued working and given some of her salary to help them out, but she chose to help with the care itself. And, I say this as someone who is currently in this exact position.... and I'm not Indian. A grandmother who is lucky enough to help with the care of her grandchild during the critical first years of development. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. [/quote] That's wonderful but many grandparents are still working, many are infirm, many kids have moved far from home so the grandparents aren't there to help, my own parents have a little of both - my father is still working and my mother has a debilitating disease that would make it impossible for her to have helped even if the kids were still close by enough for them to help to the degree that daycare wouldn't have been necessary. But it's nice that you've figured out all the secrets to life. [/quote] I think it would be a really nice policy to mandate for a one year sabbatical for any person who wants to take care of any other person- whether it is a child, parent, grandchild, partner, or even a friend. Imagine how many people that would help, how many people wouldn’t be alone at the end of their lives, how many children would have a loving caregiver, how many unmarried people could have care from someone who loves them. Still waiting for Republicans to propose this![/quote] I assume you mean a paid sabbatical because there's not ma pnyeople to go one year without wages. But honestly if we could just start with like women who actually give childbirth and have to recover from it and have a postpartum. First that would be really f****** great. Because right now we have men who get paternity leave which is all well and good but there's no requirement for actual paid leave for women to recover from childbirth. So in my opinion we're all skipping a lot of bunch of f****** steps and yet again this all sounds nice but the idea of giving a one-year sabbatical to grandparents but not giving any paid leave to women who actually do the child bearing is just the f****** middle finger. [/quote]
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