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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you want to be a trad wife, we get it. This man is not for you.  [/quote]

Actually, not. I want to have a partner who is truly giving and generous. And who would support me in difficult times. I make half a million and was contributing higher share towards joint expenses in marriage and a relationship I had post divorce. But being ok when a woman to take out her  wallet in restaurants is demeaning to me. I don’t want to be that woman

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Then don’t do it. I don’t because I know I have no intention of paying so no need to do the credit card fake out game. [/quote]

OP here: I actually consider your approach riskier. A man would get tired of paying and will grow resentful all the time. I do explain to the guy who proved himself being a generous person after 3 dates or so that I do contribute. I start inviting men I like for concerts, I gave men presents, covered some of the joint trip costs in the past etc. But I do explain that gender roles matter to me even in equal partners relationship. Paying for a man's drinks&food, and doing it publicly is somehow very uncomfortable to me. When I see a couple going Dutch in restaurants, her pulling out her wallet, singing a check - for some reason I feel sorry for the woman in those couples. 
That's just not for me. [/quote]
And you are giving BJs and doing dishes and laundry on the first few dates to show him your "traditional gender role" potential? Or just expecting men to lavish you with dates and gifts?[/quote]

Not on the first few dates. But I enjoy giving BJ later on, when both are exclusive and tested;) Dishes are just loaded in the dishwasher nowadays - NBD [/quote]

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