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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]The more I think about it, the more I'm thinking that divorcing him would [b]clear you of the burden he is on your mental health[/b][/quote]

You are not factoring in safety concerns when the young kids are soley in his care. While married, that likely happens rarely.

OP, ignore "vibe" answers and get legal advice her how his debt impacts you and how being married impacts your assets positively, if he lives for a while or if he dies soon. You need legal advice and numbers to compare.

Is he being paid his full salary while in the hospital or is part of it commissions, etc.?[/quote]
You are right that OP needs professional help, but there is no way he's getting any sort of custody while he's literally in the hospital dying... C'mon. [/quote]

Doubt he's actually dying. If he was there would be mention of hospice. [/quote]

You have NO idea how death from alcoholism works. Sit down.[/quote]

I've had several relatives die from alcoholism and know well it is a lengthy process. F off with your insensitivity and assumptions. [/quote]

It’s lengthy—except when it isn’t. Alcoholics die all the time without anyone mentioning hospice. They die by alcohol poisoning. They die by choking on their own vomit. They die in DUIs or as victims of violent crime. They die because they wander outside in weather their bodies can’t handle. They break esophageal varices and bleed to death in minutes. None of this involves hospice.

So your advice to ignore the chance that he will die unless there was “mention of hospice” is bad, wrong, and could harm the OP’s interests.

Telling me to F off may feel good (?) but it doesn’t change any of that.[/quote]

most of your hypos do not apply to someone hospitalized and receiving medical treatment[/quote]

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