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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to make is 100% clear to your parents and your brother that you will NOT be assuming care of or any responsibility for your brother in the future, so that other plans can be made. If they leave him $, it should be in a trust. In the meantime, perhaps they can teach him skills like laundry. I'd call a family meeting with your parents, DH and brother. Leave kid out of it and don't discuss it around him. To me, sending him over, with dirty laundry, is kind of testing your boundaries and wearing you down to be everlasting Mommy 2.0. I would genuinely try to understand what mental or developmental issues may be at play, they are part of your child's genetics. Which is not to say that he could not learn to be more independent. But, unlikely he is neurotypical and living like this. [/quote]
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