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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Those financial promises were made when you weren't the ex. They no longer feel obligated[/b]. Maybe they can't afford it. 
I really don't think a grandparent should pay a grandchild's tuition. College is a choice not mandatory. It's up to you and the father to provide that.  
We bought the grandchild a vehicle and pay his insurance only because that's money we saved for him.[/quote]

When a couple gets divorced, the grandparents no longer have a relationship with their grandkids?

The parents divorced each other. The kids didn't divorce their own damn grandparents. 
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In my case high earning DH walked out after abuse that was life threatening. He took all of the marital money with him. He nearly killed their daughter and ongoing abuse continues

He seems to believe the grandparents (exW parents) should be responsible for paying child support, for private HS and all of college while he earns 400K and lavishes it on new partner. I don’t think grandparents have any interest in covering his half. I don’t blame them. [/quote]

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