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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]New poster here. We are very interested in St. Albans. The next entry year for us would be 7 and then 9th. We are very happy in our parochial catholic school and plan to be there through 8th grade. What are the benefits to applying in 7th vs. 9th? For those with kids at the school, would love to hear your experience at the middle school level and high school level. [/quote]

If you're set on STA, the one advantage to applying in 7th is getting two chances at a spot.  My son and several others we know applied twice (7th and 9th).  My kid had straight As, travel sport, arts extracurriculars, etc but 7th grade spots our year were almost all hooked kids (siblings, legacy, etc).  He applied again in 9th and got in.  Others years may have more unhooked spots available for 7th--it varies a lot.  You won't know until you apply because STA (or any school) isn't going to come out and tell you this but if you end up joining a class you're figure out who joined and when.

I think the middle school experience is pretty rigorous but my kid did fine joining the school in 9th from public (even from virtual learning in public).  If we could do it all over again I would have loved to have sent him earlier simply because we really like the school and it's been fantastic for him!  The 4 years of high school go very quickly.  That said, he is still quite good friends with his middle school friends (who now all attend different high schools) and it's very nice to have these friends and social world.  The kids who join earlier have their STA friends and that's it. I will say the negative of this on the 9th grade end is that it can take a year or so to make friends. I feel like girls (I have one of them) hit a new school and immediately want to connect.  Boys warm up to each other over time and shared experiences.  It took my son until 10th grade to really find his people.  It's also more difficult to enter an "ongoing" class in 9th grade.  I can be easier for boys to enter a high school where everyone is new in 9th.

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NP. So let me get this straight. Your son started in 9th grade at STA and it took him more than a year to find friends? In a small school that is all boys?

I doubt that this is the message you intended to convey, but that is hardly a ringing endorsement of the school or the kids who attend.

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This is not unusual at all. It was the same experience for kids I know at Gonzaga, STJ, Sidwell, etc.  It's not easy to make friendships in high school (friends that you do things with outside of school). Kids are super busy with academics, sports, etc.  My daughter is at NCS and I have friends whose daughters joined in 9th and still don't feel connected to anyone 1 or 2 years later.  It can be tough when you change schools for high school.  It's kind of luck-of-the-draw.  Do you end up in classes with kids you really click with?  That's one of the downsides of the small (15) class sizes of these schools.  By the end of freshman year you may have never really met half the class even if it's only a class of 80. [/quote]

Interesting. Wasn’t the case at all with my kids, who are at schools that you name here. Those schools perhaps worked harder to make sure that incoming 9th graders more immediately felt at home.

Glad that it eventually worked out for your son at STA. [/quote]

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