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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are not paying for human, so please don't phrase it that way.

You can pay for the SERVICES of professionals that help you on your path to becoming parents (i.e. social workers, physicians). But you are NOT buying a baby. OP's wording is extremely offensive. It would be regardless of how the couple is making parenthood possible.[/quote]

If you buy sperm, buy a donor egg, and buy a surrogate, how is that not buying a baby? You have not contributed a single component other than money. [i]That's[/i] what is offensive.[/quote]

I would never tell anyone this IRL but privately I think it's Orwellian and worry about how the child will feel about this when grown. Like a science experiment? Select an egg donor from menu A, and a sperm donor from menu B based on "desirable" traits... I am uncertain about the ethics...There's also such a power imbalance between the young women who are egg "donors" (which carriers risk, sometimes not immediately apparent) and those who buy their eggs...it can be exploitative.. I know that some people are desperate to become parents and do become loving parents, but when does it become an act of selfishness? Should this industry be better regulated? I am sorry if this makes any parents who have engaged in this practice feel defensive but am thinking about the children...would never say this to anyone I know.[/quote]

I agree with this also. We can no longer just trust life, nature, existence. Money and man's will must determine everything...

I looked into surrogacy and it is extremely unregulated. Selling your eggs or renting your womb is technically illegal. That's why it's offered under the term 'donating' but you receive a $ gift for that donation. Since it is an anonymous 'donation', the women are not tracked for health outcomes down the line. And therefore these health outcomes are not understood (including many accounts of horrible illness and early death). And of course most 'donors' are poor so who cares right? It's a big scheme for the fertility clinics.

Do so many women in other cultures experience infertility? Only when we stay away from our connection to the natural world. Just my opinion obviously.

Not judging individuals just reflecting on our society.[/quote]

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