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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you divorced him, he would magically find a way to remember how to do these things. He is lazy. And you are making excuses for him.[/quote] +1000. I am the ADHD spouse in my family (I’m the wife!) and I do about 60% of the housework and 100% of the cooking. He is LAZY. [/quote] I also have ADHD but I have a high salary, I do a lot of the housework, including 100% of children-related admin. DH plans our travel because I procrastinate. He catches bills I miss. But I definitely have never used ADHD as an excuse in our marriage. If anything, I've worked hard to create systems to get through life in a mostly organized manner so it doesn't wear on him. [/quote]
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