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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are the kids and was there an affair? I think generally the advice in these situations is to invite everyone and let them decide. If that means nephews won't go, that is on them. But the answers to my questions could change all of that. [/quote]

They were teenagers. It was a very painful divorce. They are now 24, 21 and 19. My exSIL has moved on, I felt she was always the bigger person.[/quote]

How long ago was the divorce?[/quote]

5 years ago[/quote]

And how long are these young men going to nurse a grudge and try to ruin their aunts Christmas dinner with their theatrics? 10 years? 15?[/quote]

How long did their dad promise to love and cherish their mom?[/quote]

You need therapy for your unresolved issues. Parents get divorced MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, statistically. In other words, grow up. [/quote]

Maybe the people who need to grow up are those who can't hack marriage and are just bored or unfulfilled and think nothing of blowing the family up because kids are "resilient". They never think to put their own selfish immature desires aside. You are messed up. [/quote]
DP, You are tripping! People get divorced for various reasons. It’s hard, it’s painful and has lasting repercussions. But you don’t get to assume why people do what they or who it affects.
Get your healing. GO TO THERAPY!!!![/quote]

Grow up and stop screaming.[/quote]

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