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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow y'all PPs are nuts and completely going off on your own imaginary scenarios.

this is a GF NOT wife
a long-planned one time family trip NOT weekly dinners
less than a year relationship NOT 20-year marriage
DS active in planning (pre-GF) NOT a demanding mother usurpring DS's valuable time off

If you're about to reply talking about ILs and husbands.... you're in the wrong thread[/quote]

Thank you! (I am OP.)

Fair point to err on the side of being inclusive because this could set the tone for the future - I didn’t really think of it that way and I acknowledged I was probably wrong many pages ago! I think I felt reluctant mostly because things have moved so fast and we’ve been here before. But all the many PPs are probably right that we should think long term on this.

Also the whole spouses conversation - people setting standards on how much their spouse should be able to see their parents etc- makes me realize what a good marriage I have! We both encourage the other to spend time with our families alone. And are always totally fine when the other does that. That time with my parents is so important to me! And my husband’s is to him. And maybe that’s why I came at this the way I did initially. I can’t imagine criticizing my mother in law for wanting time alone with my husband.

Lastly I do think this convo is pretty tilted toward stereotypes of moms/sons.

Anyway, sorry to interrupt, carry on with the in-law venting! [/quote]

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