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[quote=Anonymous]Another poster. I have a real problem with this statement made by the person in the EA: "The real issue is what is going on between you and your spouse that led them to seek intimacy else where. If you fix that issue, you will fix your marriage and the EA will end." This is utter bullshit. DH and I were both in a shitty marriage, and he is the one who had an EA, not me. It was NOT my fault, it was his weakness. In fact, he has taken ownership since of the fact that his weaknesses and tendencies in the first place are what fucked up our marriage. I am no angel and I certainly contributed, but we have uncovered that he is extremely passive aggressive, and withholds sex and affection to maintain control. I have my issues but I didn't do that and I didn't have an affair. His fear of intimacy made him an ideal EA candidate since the affair is all bullshit and not real intimacy. You only see the fantasy. [/quote]
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