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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Studies are generalizations. These are individuals. Do you realize the complications and limitations on doing studies on infidelity?

I do agree therapy is important but you just don't know this person's situation. Until you have walked in her shoes you just don't know.

I was one of those women who couldn't even fathom how another woman could be unfaithful. I judged and thought I

would NEVER EVER do it.  I was wrong. [/quote]

And did you seek therapy?  So you could fix yourself?

You realize that people can rationalize anything that they do, right?  Cognitive dissonance and all that?  So if you see that you behave contrary to your stated values, or  commonly-accepted morality, you can either blame it on the situation or try to fix yourself.  Personal growth demands the latter, obviously.

I have never been a fan of situational ethics, and yes, I do judge people who try to excuse their own failings, rather than accepting responsibility for them and trying to change them. It is a huge problem throughout our society.

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