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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But I have to go to college, work, grad school, work and sow my wild oats before I start dating for marriage. Duh. 30 seems about right to start looking for the special girl. Or whomever I happen to be dating at that time. [/quote]

Everyone thinks they can do better until they can't. They don't realize how quickly dating pool dries up and becomes leftovers.[/quote]

great reason to marry someone you're not actually that into![/quote]

Well, no but you need to br ready to settle for worse later.[/quote]

You people are so weird. Marriage isn't an issue of checking off some number of boxes. It's finding someone you can actually build a life with - and who you want to build a life with. There is no "settle for worse" - there is not being ready to make the compromises that life with another person entails, and then being ready to make those compromises. Ask the spouses of the people who marry too soon how happy everything is - I am going to guess, not very happy.

Marry when you are ready to marry. Marry someone who you get along with, who you can build a life with. That would be my advice. [/quote]

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