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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had an ex husband who cheated on me. He was mentally unwell, bipolar and we did not have sex for 5 years. He was either depressed or manic, and it was not attractive at all, not to mention crazy.  I was trying my best to look after our baby/young daughter during those years. Same situation as the above poster.

After being [b]separated for two years[/b], i finally went online and met someone that pursued me. He was much younger, and I made fun of him for being a beefcake. His pic was of his six pack and it was so cheesy. I never wanted to meet up with him.

We became fast friends, and had so much in common. I trusted him enough to treat me well after not being sexual in a long time. [b]Our one night stand lasted five years. He was married even though I met him online, thinking he was single[/b]. I don’t regret it. He is a kindred soul.[/quote]

Confused. You were separated, for quite a while, at the time you went online to find a man. OK, fair enough.

You thought Mr. Sixpack was single when you met online. Got it. But did he tell you he was single or did you assume it?

And your "one night stand lasted five years." This is where I"m really not clear -- did you think the whole five years that he was single? And only found out at the end or afterward? Or did you know early on that he was married, and you...shrugged and said that was fine? Didn't care that he had lied 0lied about being married (or you'd wrongly assumed it)? I'ml not sure how you got from "met him online, thinking he was single" when you began, to five years together with a married man. And why that didn't affect your relationship at all. Because you're kinded souls? [/quote]

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