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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous
100% of your anger should be directed at your cheating spouse. They are the one who took vows with you, lied to you, spent time with someone else. A third party cannot come into a strong, healthy marriage and break it up.[/quote]

This is wrong in so many levels. The implication that people in strong marriages don’t cheat is false - many people cheat because they can, even though they love their spouse and want to stay married.  More importantly, I could be 100% angry at my spouse AND the other person, who jacks character and morals.  They didn’t take vows with me, but their is a human code that moral people observe.[/quote]

+100

I reserve the right to get mad at anyone.  Someone banging my spouse AND my spouse seem like likely targets.

You bang someone’s spouse.  Of course, they are going to be angry.  Duh.[/quote]

you’re wrong from the first statement 
+100??? somehow you think you’re more than just one person, maybe want to say 100% agree

your spouse reserves the right to bang whoever s/h wants and not care about you, no one is forcing them, they willingly get on with the banging
you may get angry only if someone is forcing them otherwise just pack with things [/quote]

I guess you miss the “AND”.  Most people are angry at the whole lot when discovered.  Both parties get some hate, most certainly their spouse gets the brunt of if.  But it is so gdamn naive to believe a betrayed spouse won’t have intensely negative feelings for the co-cheater as well.  I mean—ever watch Dateline?[/quote]

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