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[b]She’s a kind person who sacrificed a lot financially to raise my DH[/b] but has made a slew of poor financial decisions. I am fairly sure that her only assets for her retirement are less than 50K in cash and around 150K in her 401K which she has not touched yet. She has no long-term care

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Stare at this until your heart thaws. You don’t have to do this kind of thing on a repeated basis, but as a one time bail out? Yes. She is a kind parent who sacrificed a lot to raise the husband that you love. Show some caring back to her, even if you disagree with her choices. This isn’t about your family. It’s about what your husband wants to do for his mom.[/quote]

Agree with this.  Whereas you did not get such kindless from your own parents, your DH did from his, and you should be kind in your turn.  [b]She's a kind person who sacrificed a lot financially to raise my DH[/b] and the fact that she's 69 is the end of the story to me.  Be kind.[/quote]

Absolutely. Please thaw your frozen heart.[/quote]

Ok so, (Raised DH) + (Kind Person) + (Is 69) = precisely how much of their savings?[/quote]

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