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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m curious to what incomes and net worths are considered rich to these people who are marrying one another.

I’m a public school who went to an ivy. I met my DH in grad school. He also went to an ivy. I think more people meet and marry from college, grad school and meet during their young professional lives.

I wasn’t in a sorority. It seems really strange that OP is keeping tabs of these people from her sorority and she is trying to rank them. How would she even know how well they all married? Just from social media?

We live very well. I don’t post. I don’t think my old childhood friends could tell I married well from my social media.[/quote]

It is not about family net worth or trust funds. That is just a cope. Private school molds you in unique ways which can not be replicated or faked. And boarding school alumni are even more unique than local prep day school alumni. There was a thread on dcum years ago about private school kids having a je ne se quoi. A certain something. It is hard to explain but you know it when you see it. This goes over the head of most public school alumni, ex. OP naively thinks all of her sisters were the same because on paper they were at the same college, in the same sorority, and studying the same majors. They were not the same. The private and boarding school educated women were unique in ways very attractive to the most desirable bachelors.[/quote]

I dunno about this.  Believing that Bullis or Flint Hill students or kids from some random podunk private school are charismatic beasts is trying to justify an inflated price paid for their education, aka cope.  I know (gasp!) unattractive, fake, and striver boarding school alumni who are most definitely not pulling the most desirable men.  It's like people on here idolize a certain set of kids and seem to think they all follow the same golden path.  They don't.[/quote]

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