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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And, you OP have responsibility to protect relationship of your daughter with her blood aunt or uncle and not let money grabber greedy stepdaughter mess it up[/quote] Right because blood is automatically always more important than your relationship with your spouse...[/quote] I would definitely put my daughter before my spouse who was trying to drive a wedge between us. Spouse is easily replaced.[/quote] I'm not referring to the daughter I'm referring to his brother. Why does he owe his brother loyalty over the woman he chose to marry?? Everyone here seems to say his relationship with his brother is more important than his relationship with his wife. Your wife is now your immediate family and after marriage your siblings become extended family[/quote] Think it through, if you shut down the trips with the loving aunt and uncle you risk alienating the daughter. It's all related. OP has only been married 6 months and the wife is pulling the bait and switch. She knew about these trips, and now she's trying to change the rules to her benefit. I wouldn't jeopardize my relationship with my daughter for a duplicitous spouse.[/quote] 6 months or 60 years you are still married just the same. Don't marry someone with kids if you put your relationship with your brother over the relationship with your step kids.[/quote] You know marriages can be ended with divorce, right? The daughter is forever the spouse is not. [/quote] I'm talking about the brother. You should owe your wife and children a little more than your sibling[/quote] You're very short sighted if you think the brother is the only issue here. Why are you so hyper focused on the brother and ignoring the ripple effect? The daughter will be resentful if the beloved uncle is cut off. Who do you think she's going to blame? Her wicked step mother perhaps? [/quote]
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