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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in the midst of planning a summer wedding. Our ceremony and reception are at different venues but the two are a ten minute walk from each other (five minute drive) and both in downtown DC. My usual instinct is that when a wedding has two venues, it's incumbent upon the hosts to provide transportation but I'm not sure if that's true here.
Would it be unreasonable to ask guests to walk from one venue to the next? Or otherwise make their own way? 
I have not made my mind up either way so would love advice on balance cost (of transportation) and etiquette. [/quote]

I've never been to a wedding that provided transportation to guests to a reception from the ceremony. Ever. And I don't think I've ever been to a wedding on the same premises as a ceremony. Maybe provide it to elderly or if you know someone has a health issue but the vast majority can figure it out. [/quote]

Then you’ve only been to some cheap a** weddings. 🤔[/quote]

Exactly this. OP has to be a troll, or really has not been to as many weddings as she thinks.

OP, your best bet us to ask someone who has been both innand actually part of 30+ weddings, because you have been getting some terrible information.

No transportation = cheap ass. [/quote]

First of all, you both are condescending, smug little pricks. "Cheap a-- weddings?" Well, aren't you a peach.

Second of all, I come from a large family, with many weddings, as well as have been in at LEAST 8 weddings as an adult (not including flower girls as a child). And I've attended dozens more as a guest. In only 1 was transportation provided and that was a trolley to the wedding party only. All weddings were at a religious houses (church or synagogue) and party offset at a variety of types of venues.

My husband - same on his side.

So the exception may be you. [/quote]

I've been to well over a hundred weddings in my lifetime and not one has been at multiple venues. [/quote]

NP: I truly don't understand this. Are you saying that you've been to 100 weddings and each wedding ceremony was held in the same location as the reception afterwards?! I have only been at a shared ceremony/reception wedding in just a few cases - like on a beach or in a restaurant - but 99% have been held at two different venues.  I've been provided transportation from a hotel to a church and then to the reception, and I've been shuttled around as a member of the wedding party, but I've never once been provided transport just from the ceremony to the reception and back again. [/quote]

Yes, they’ve always been in the same place. Always. 
Generally a hotel, but I’ve also attended weddings at restaurants, clubs, museums and even a baseball stadium.

I’d find it very odd to be expected to go to a different venue. [/quote]

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