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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a daughter of a certified gold digger (with 3 profitable divorces to her name) who was raised from an early age in the art, most of you just don’t get it. It has only a little to do with how she looks. It’s important that it’s clear she’s made an effort to look her best for him, but that’s enough. Everything else is about how she makes him feel. The praise. The thank yous. The touches. The eyelash batting. The long gazed into his eyes. Men are honestly very easy to please. The problem is that beautiful women are used to being worshiped, not doing the worshiping. A woman who can flip that script can have any man she wants. And honestly you can give them so so little and they’ll still be elated, because so few women understand this. [/quote]

My mom was a whore and she was the BEST whore. Tee hee. 
Seek a therapist sweetie. That is not a healthy way to grow up. Aside from that yes, Sanchez is obviously a manipulative gold digger. They much is clear. [/quote]

Gold digger daughter - I would read your memoir or a novelized version of it. Please have that on my desk by next week.

This is maybe for another thread - but did you use the lessons your mom taught you or did you go another path but keep these tucked away as a sort of secret knowledge about how the world works? Or some mix? How's your mom now? [/quote]

I think like anyone I absorbed a lot about the relationships I grew up having modeled for me. But my mom was more explicit than other moms I think, and would tell me point blank certain things she did to make men feel good. As an example, any time we went out to dinner, she would stop, touch his arm, look into his eyes and say some combination of “thank you so much for that. It was absolutely perfect. I’m so grateful you work so hard to make money to pay for a dinner like that. I feel so lucky.”

I thought this was SO CHEESY as a kid and I thought any guy who would fall for it was a total schmuck. But then when I got older I realized that the vast majority of men want that kind of thing. So I do do it, but in ways that feel authentic to me. One thing that comes to mind is when he got a professional accolade, I made sure to tell a lot of people in our life about it, and to explain why it was important to his mom in front of him, in a way that highlighted I was proud of him.

The way I diverged from my mother is that I was always willing to tell my husband when I was mad or when he was screwing up. My mom in contrast is highly conflict avoidant and instead just shut down when things weren’t tolerable to her anymore. Then she’d end up divorcing and remarrying.

My mom is now married to her 4th husband who is a trust fund baby. They’re traveling a ton and having a grand old time. [/quote]

This is all fiction. You’re probably a 200 lb work from home spinster. [/quote]

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