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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean really this thread is a cautionary tale against:

1. Marrying man children.
2. Listening to women who mistake being taken advantage of for “strength”.

Ladies know your worth and teach your daughters![/quote]

This is dumb. Your daughters won't know if their husband will be willing to get up in the middle of the night to feed the baby until his ass won't get up in the middle of the night to feed the baby. [/quote]

Sure they will. First of all this is something you discuss [i]before marriage[/i]— what should the breakdown of household responsibilities be. A man who isn’t committed to being an equal parent isn’t going to have a plan for being an equal parent, is going to say a lot of wishy-washy “we’ll figure it out” nonsense.

Second of all, the first instance of selfish immaturity is not going to be an unwillingness to get out of bed to care for an infant.  There’s going to have been plenty of times where his “needs” had to take precedence in the past. You don’t have kids with someone who consistently puts themselves ahead of everyone else because they’re going to be the ones warm in bed at 2am. [/quote]

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