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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I don't understand the people who say that if it wasn't for the women the men would just not do any of this and there would be no Thanksgiving. [/b]

My husband is making the turkey and gravy. But also just this morning my 13 year old son was talking about how much he is looking forwad to thanksgiving.  This year he is making the pumpkin pie.

I have daughters who have dish assignments too, and I ended up doing all the rest of the sides and most of the table set up.  But it is a whole family activity to host a bunch of our extended family.

If it was left up to my husband, we would have just about everything that we have planned except perhaps the brussels sprouts.  [/quote]

You don't understand that in the overwhelming majority of American families, especially GenX and older, holidays are considered women's work?  Seriously?

Even scarier: you don't understand that people are different than you?[/quote]

NP. Can you please site your source for the “overwhelming majority of American families…women’s work” statement? I ask as my husband is literally on the way to the grocery store now to get rutabagas and pie crust ingredients—he makes mashed rutabagas, cranberry orange relish, and a pumpkin pie literally from scratch—as in from a pie pumpkin—every year. He also has a list of Christmas dishes that he will make without fail.[/quote]

Off topic, but is one of you of Scandinavian origin? I have my family sold in cranberry relish but never succeeded with rutabagas, so if you need an extra guest next year, LMK![/quote]

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