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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe a minority here, but I kind of feel like she is in the wrong. I know how book clubs are and I would never ask someone if I can come. I might ask "is you book club accepting new member?" but never would I ask if I can come to someone's book club meeting. [/quote] +1[/quote] Exactly. I would say “if you are ever looking for new members, let me know”. It’s easy to ask to be included in a way that does not put the other person on the spot. This can be applied to many social situations and it’s just good manners. You express interest, but leave it open ended. That way if you are not invited to join, but still want to remain friendly, it’s not awkward. [/quote]
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