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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So much this. Most betrayed spouses want less drama not more. This is all that needs to be said to children from the cheater. The betrayed spouse can just say I left because he was cheating. The divorce had nothing to do with you. No more no less.

The good news is that if you do cheat, it is possible to redeem yourself with your kids by simply demonstrating an awareness that you regret hurting them, you are aware that your behavior was not in line with your morals, and that you made a bad decision. But you love them and will continue to Prioritize them and be the best parent you can be. That’s literally all they want to hear. But you stupid cheaters can’t say those words. You can’t. You want to tell your kids that you cheated because your spouse wasn’t having sex with you, or because you fell out of love, or you just made a one time mistake, or whatever excuse you think In Your head is valid.

There is literally no excuse for cheating that can’t be torn apart by the response “then get a divorce first.” That’s why cheaters want their secret kept. Because they are incapable of acknowledging they made a mistake that hurt people, and they know their excuse is BS that wont even stand up to the critical thinking skills of a young child.[/quote]

Well said.

I think the cheaters on this thread are outright delusional. Maybe that’s why they cheated? It is a little crazy to me. [/quote]

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