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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe you should drop the entitlement, stop being bitter Betty, and make your own money. Stop expecting a man to provide you with the things you want and provide them for yourself. You know the other great thing about giving yourself the material things you desire? You don't have to marry for a lifestyle...you can marry purely for love.

I'm about your age, have a policy job, but I'm guessing I probably make at least twice as much as you do. I'm also reasonably thin and am told I am attractive very frequently. However, I've never waited for a man to provide me the things I want. I buy my own luxury car if I want, jewelry, clothes, have a healthy housing budget. I travel internationally and domestically frequently. I've dated very, very successful men, I've dated local celebrity-types. However, the man I loved the most was an advanced sommelier who worked in the restaurants his entire life. And I could because I didn't need his money...I provided myself with the life I wanted. While it didn't work out with us ultimately, I am so grateful for that experience and feeling like, for the time we had, I had a true partner who really loved me for me (and I him.) If I was hung up on stuff, it never would have happened.

Also, there is an entire world out there and an entire life to be lived outside of a man. Why don't you focus on that? Sitting around being bitter you don't have a CC husband clearly isn't making you happy. Maybe work on living a happy life for you first...you may be surprised what comes from there. [/quote]

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