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Reply to "If you forgave infidelity, how did you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd read Esther Perel's books as a start.[/quote] please don't. She's an affair apologist and implies the marriage or the BS, had something to do with it. [/quote] Many people believe that the marriage had something to do with the cheating. Yes, there are some men and women who will cheat no matter what and have no morals. But there are others who are absolutely cheating in response to a bad marriage and underlying problems. I know it’s hard to acknowledge this, but it’s the truth. [/quote] No means no. No you may not cheat on me. No I am not going to stay married to you. No it is not ok to lie to me. No it is not ok for me to lie to you. It's hard for cheaters to acknowledge that they use the people around them to justify their secrets and one-sided rationalizations. The cheaters learned their methods of coping and surviving by covert betrayal of others long before they got married.[/quote]
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