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Wow, there seems to be a one or two hate-filled trolls on this thread, attacking the OP.

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Yah, there’s a lot of rage in here. Kids thrive from spending time with grandparents. Some of you can take any situation and twist it into something so different from what it is. It’s fine she doesn’t want to do it but I do think the time to speak up was months ago when we discussed all the options and asked her about it, not this late in the game. I actually have no issue taking the kids at all. 
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Kids thrive from spending time with grandparents who are *comfortable, confident and willing to take on child care.* Kids would NOT thrive in the care of an anxiety-riddled grandparent who is overwhelmed. See the difference? Did I go slow enough? Do you get it yet?[/quote]

Yes and she said she wanted to do it as long as they were in camp. She changed her mind, but no one pressured her. [/quote]

Well, if you are posting here for her changing her mind, then this is pressure.  Your uncouth writing makes me shudder what kind of shit and intimidation you are using on her IRL.  Good for her to speak up now.  Your kids are lucky that she declined. Imagine if something really bad happened to them in her shift.

You should be grateful to her, if you value the lives. health and safety of your children. [/quote]

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