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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH. I was “beaten” as a child. And I beat my kids. 🙄

Here’s the deal. I’m a guy. There were basically two kinds of corporal punishment when I was a kid. One was the angry swat to your butt, or when you’re a smart ass 12 year old, a slap to your face. Those I don’t recommend, but totally understand that it happens.

The other kind, which I fully endorse, and have implemented, is the calm, old school, “you disobeyed/lied/were totally defiant/ignored two warnings, and now you’re going to go over my knee and get a spanking.” Those are extremely effective because you know that it’s based on your actions, not on your parents’ anger.

And because it’s effective, it’s not something that’s happening all the time by any means, like some people will suggest is necessary for other discipline. [/quote]

Yes! This is how it should be. THANK YOU.[/quote]

Honest question: How can you account for the fact that it is completely unnecessary to ever spank a kid? How do tou explain families with well behaved kids who were never spanked?

Doesn’t the fact that an alternative is available mean that choosing violence is wrong?[/quote]

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