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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry to tell you but I’m one in the same person – the Muslim you disagree with and the one calling you intolerant. And here’s the thing. We are probably much more alike than you think (given some of your off-the-wall personal questions of me). I too want non-Muslims to understand Islam. [b]Where we differ is that while I respect your right to practice Islam the way you want, you don’t seem to respect mine.[/b] Just because you disagree me with me doesn’t mean I’m part of the ignorant masses you seem to despise. Or that “my” Islam is not the “real” Islam. Islam is Islam. Yes, and why would I support anyone's right to extrapolate from the Quran rules that are not actually IN the Quran and rules which unduly oppress people, particularly women? If handshaking between opposite sexes is forbidden, then that means you probably support punishment for it in Muslim countries also. Can you imagine that - punishing people for shaking hands? It's the height of ignorance. In Iran, policemen will use their batons to hit the ankles of women if their ankles are inadvertently exposed. In Saudi Arabia, women are punished if they drive a car alone or run errands alone. There is NOTHING in the Quran that supports such beliefs. But you are asking me to support you while you support such similar oppressive rules, none of which are supported in the Quran? How can I? And it honestly does not matter if millions of Muslims follow these or not because it is possible that millions may still be wrong. And if Muslims feel such behavior is ideal then they naturally have contempt and disgust for those who they feel are on the other extreme, those who date, who who shake hands even, those who have premarital sex. They may not express their contempt openly, but Muslims feel disgust and contempt for those who engage in such behaviors. It just makes for an intolerance that results in oppression for everyone. [b]But the reality is that Islam is divided in sects (Sunni and Shia) and further divided in doctrine by major schools of jurisprudence. This is very similar to Christianity and the schism between Orthodox and Roman Catholic Churches, and then the divide among various Christian denominations. [/b] There are many realities that probably should not be acceptable realities to Muslims. The Quran did not recommend or suggest that such divisions be created among Muslims. Mankind created such divisions. So we need to go back to what the Quran recommended, not what we as men recommend. You have decided to practice Islam solely from the Qur’an and this is FINE. I have no objection to this (not that my opinion matters, but I wonder if you think I’m attacking you somehow, and I’m not). [b]My concern is that for non-Muslims, this is not a representational view of mainstream Islam. [/b] It would be like a Christian stating she does not belong to any particular denomination – isn’t Catholic or Baptist, etc. – but only follows the Bible. Again, which is FINE. But it’s not representative of mainstream Christianity. That is my only point here. If you wish to preach mainstream Islam then why don't you create your own thread inviting questions and answering from from a strict, conservative standpoint? Most Muslims in THIS country are not against handshaking, however. So you represent an even more strict group of Muslims than the ones living here. I represent the group that still prays, fasts, abstains completely from alcohol and pork. I dress fairly conservatively. I performed Hajj also. I was raised Sunni. But I absolutely do not embrace the Sharia, the divisions that we men created after the Quran was revealed to us. I do not embrace all the hadith either. I spoke to the famed scholar Ahmad Sakr in California who told me that the Sahih Al-Bukhari hadith if not accurate in its current form. There is too much hearsay in it. But look at how many unduly harsh rules are born out of these man made rules and look at how oppressive they are to people, particularly women. This thread was created by me as a liberal Muslim to let nonMuslims know that there is a growing population of Muslims that resent that our religion has been misinterpreted. We loathe the fact that terrorism and oppression is committed in the name of our religion. We resent that more people did not stand up against the perpetrators of 9/11. As you know many, many Muslims refuse to even believe that Muslims committed 9/11, they are in such gross denial about their own people. You represent a whole different highly conservative and fairly strict thinking. It is not what I intended in this thread but somehow you seem to think that your view belongs here too. Again, I suggest you create your own thread representing your own strict, conservative interpretation of Islam. And finally, the schools of jurisprudence are not inherently evil or wrong. The way many Muslims deal with them is. But the answer here is not to throw out the schools of jurisprudence. Take away fiqh, and you will still have people stoning adulterers to death. Don’t be fooled. The enemy isn’t religion. It’s the gross imbalance of power that makes people’s lust for supremacy so strong, they will trample whomever they need to in order to achieve what they want. And in many countries, the tool used to oppress is Islam. In many families, the tool used to oppress is Islam. The answer, in my opinion, is to make all societies more equal and just. When this occurs, the power of domination and manipulation falls away. There is no need to step on people to get what you want, when you already have it. [/quote][/quote]
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