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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=YHL]So your father who was a good man had an affair, and you now have no relationship with him??[/quote]

I have no relationship with him.

He was considered "a good man," in the sense that he paid the bills, sent us to private school, committed no crime, kept the house looking nice, etc. But he had an affair that *destroyed* our family. It is simply too painful to communicate with him, especially because he expresses little remorse for what he did. He justified, and I believe that he still continues to justify, the affair as something that was between him and our mother and that it was an adult issue. My sister and I were not/are not gullible kids. We knew it was total BS. Anything that family member does that is this significant affects the whole family. After we left the house for college, we stopped talking to him. We communicate by phone maybe twice a year. [/quote]

Then please make sure you are a totally fulfilling spouse and sexual partner. Don't ever say no to your spouse and indulge him or her always.[/quote]

Are you, in essence, blaming my mother for my father's irresponsible choices? It was his decision to cheat. There are more honorable ways of dealing with an unsatisfying sex life.[/quote]

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