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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp again. My point was that every couple has differences in opinion about some spending or priorities whether it is house or vacations or whatever. I know for me 1 vacation per year would be a dealbreaker. Maybe it is a dealbreaker for OP that his future wife wanted to be a SAHM.[/quote] You can’t base relationship decisions on number of vacations per year.[/quote] I have been married for 15 years. We go on 10 vacations per year - some small and some large. Dh doesn’t join us for all of them. He probably goes on 3-4 weeklong and then a handful of long weekends with us. I once dated a guy who didn’t like to travel. He didn’t enjoy it and that was a dealbreaker for me. You can’t tell another person what is a dealbreaker for them.[/quote] You’re beyond tone deaf. You’re beyond privileged. Most families can’t afford 10 vacations a year or even have the ability to the time to go on one. Your advice is entitled and privileged and not realistic for most people. I’m glad you chose a guy to love based on how many times you go on vacation a year. Most people care about real things. [/quote] Not PP but she never said she wanted someone who could go on 10 vacations a year she said she didn't want someone who didn't want to travel AT ALL. But of course reading the what was written wouldn't allow you to be an asshole to pp. [/quote]
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