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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For you folks who have not yet mailed a card. After today please don’t do it. You already hurt enough people.

We have moved on and realize you don’t care, you have a bad marriage or are deeply disturbed and your twisted mind plays control games at the expensive of those who love you.

The next week card is just salt in the wound. The explanation point of I don’t care.

Like my brother in law married a girl my MIL  did not approve of and every Xmas she twists the knife no matter how my mil tries to be nice, backing out of Xmas invites last minute, late cards after New Years. Even better the classic she used actual Xmas party pictures at her house on the late card to dig knife knife deeper to make sure mil knew she had a party and was not invited.

You weaponized Christmas. Long Slow clap.  [/quote]

I think you need help. Cards are not weapons. I send 150+ cards every year and we get maybe 50? I don’t care. It brings me joy and I know lots of people who just can’t be bothered or don’t want to send cards. Their decision is not about me, it’s about them. They still like getting my card - because they tell me so. I highly doubt anyone cares if it arrives December 15th or January 4th.

One year our photographer had a family tragedy and we got our September pics back after Thanksgiving.
One year Minted lost our cards that we ordered Nov 1 and they didn’t arrive until December 18th! 
One year I had a baby in late November and we wanted to put him on the card.

Please get over yourself and your self-centered victim mentality the idea that other people’s choices and actions are directed at you and done with you in mind. I guarantee 80% of actions you perceive as weaponized at you are not about you at all. [/quote]

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