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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is straight but not monogamous.

Silly assumptions. [/quote]
Seriously. It's so weird that people in this thread are acting like all bisexuals are in open marriages or prone to cheating.

I am married to a man. I'm attracted to men. Sometimes I will see an attractive man and think wow, I bet he'd be fun to have sex with!!! But I don't actually have sex with him, because I'm in a monogamous, committed marriage. Likewise I'm certain there are bisexual men who are married to women who are attracted to men and think "I'd like to have sex with him," when they see attractive men, but they don't because they're married.[/quote]

[b]You are naive. I am a man, and being monogamous is really, really, REALLY hard for men under perfect circumstances like if you have an attractive and sexually generous wife. If you are bisexual man and have really attractions to male parts that your wife can never satisfy and it's super, super easy to cheat with other men, it's going to happen. And the STI rate in the gay community is very high[/b].[/quote]

This, in the bold. It's hard enough for a woman to compete with all the other women, but to compete with, well, mostly everyone? Too much work and stress. At least a woman with a straight husband can ramp up the amount and variety of sex they have, but a woman with a bi husband will always, always be wondering if -- even if he's in love with her, committed, emotionally invested -- he might feel unfulfilled and over time might think, "It's only sex, it's only to scratch the itch I can't get over" and he'll get what he could never get from her, no matter how she tried to satisfy him. I know this is not what some PPs want to hear but it's how a lot of straight women are going to think about this question. Even if their bi husbands/boyfriends love them. [/quote]

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