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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am opposed to cheating however I think you are wrong.  You were not in their marriage.  Your brother was not happy and he may not have made the best decision but he messed up.  He is human, we are not perfect, we make mistakes.  It says something that he is still with this woman.  Obviously that relationship is important to him, important enough to divorce over.  However none of that is your business.  It really isn't.

He is your brother, you either want a relationship or you don't.  You sound judgemental.  You should not be the gatekeeper into your family.  Every person has a place there.  Your brother has a place there and its ok for him to bring his girlfriend to Thanksgiving.

Unfortunately you will be so horrible and cold to her, that your brother and GF will come to see that the relationship is broken.  It may mean you and the whole family see less of him as a result of that.  I mean you aren't exactly accepting of him.

You can live with hate in your heart or kindness.  One will make you bitter in old age and one will give you a kind and loving life.  You have chosen hate and personally I find that really sad.  You will choose to make your holidays cold and uninviting than bring warmth into your family.  [/quote]

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