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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the PP above, men have a good idea of how their wives will react about wanting to have sex with someone else. Which is going to be "no" followed by extra suspicion.

In my case, my wife and I have zero sexual connection left, although she told me if I cheat she doesn't want to know. So I don't raise it. But like others said, I would prefer a sexual relationship with my wife. I didn't sign up for this, and the women chastising men are clueless of the pain men feel being deprived of sex and intimacy.

Fortunately, cheating is neither a crime or a factor in divorce so I don't see how you are any worse off if you get caught. [/quote]

Yeah. I had regular sex with ex.  But after 20-years he wanted that and sex with a rando for variety.  He did serious mental gymnastics to justify it because I have been in 3-some situation with him at other points in our marriage, getting BJs from someone else.  He never directly addressed this midlife crisis with me.  He knew I wouldn’t condone it, but the conversation definitely needed to be raised before going online meeting someone and having sex behind my back while still having sex with me.  He wanted some new woman to fawn over him.  She was Ugly and old (same age) and married so it definitely wasn’t about looks or intellectual conversations! He wished he had the conversation instead of losing his family/marriage over it.[/quote]

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