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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] You’re wrong, and it doesn’t brother me a bit. The thing about being confident and emotionally stable is that strangers on the Internet trying to talk you out of a place you took several years to get to doesn’t feel threatening. I understand how to make healthy choices now. The misogynistic bent of this board that blames women, wants to view them as attention seeking, and is unable to hold men accountable doesn’t surprise me. My point in contributing to this discussion is to let OP know that she can be in control of her life. Note that I’m one of the few people that spoke to her with any degree of compassion[/quote]

NP.  I’m a woman and don’t see any misogyny in tge posts responding to you.  No one is absolving your cheater AP of blame for his continually terrible decisions and lack of character, they just aren’t addressing it because he did not post.  People are addressing you because the facts you related demonstrate continued poor decision-making on your part, despite your claims that you have taken steps to become mentally healthy.  It sounds like you have done some work, but most people who have truly self-reflected and recognized and regret a pattern of unhealthy behavior would want to excise someone from their life who was a part of that pattern.  Your failure to block him suggests you are not as healthy as you think - it’s like an alcoholic who keeps a bottle of liquor on the counter because they don’t need it anymore so having it sit there is just fine.  That works, until it doesn’t.[/quote]

There are a great many alcoholics for whom it can work actually. What you can have is a former alcoholic who is now a “social drinker,” (like say if they remained “friends” or social contacts) which is not what the PP has done.[/quote]

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