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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So do you people honestly invite every member of your family every time you do something fun?
I mean I have a sister who loves to go skiing so we do that I have two sisters who love to bake so we get together and do that my other sister does scrapbooking so I do that with her. Why this need to include everyone I seriously don't get it. I mean for holidays or a birthday party sure for just a family vacation?

No offense but I would hate to be invited to everything my sisters planned or did that seems totally exhausting. And I really want to want to have to make up excuses for why I didn't want to go do stuff that I wasn't interested in or that wasn't a good fit for my family. Because if families like yours are expecting to hang out all the time yeah you're probably going to be upset when I bail. 
Are my family you invite who you think would want to go and who you want to be with if they say no they say no no one really cares. We'll have great relationships and do tons together just not every single thing.[/quote]

I consider my family close and no drama and we don't do the insane invitation shenanigans that OP is talking about. We do coordinate things among people who are interested and not others but we never hide it from each other, and if someone wants to join unexpectedly, they are welcome. The issue here is that OP actively does not want her sister to come, not that there is a coordination among people with shared interests.

But I agree with the PP who said above that OP is just a narcissist seeking validation at this point.  [/quote]

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