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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every update op gives is very weird. She says they are close but obviously not close enough to be honest?

Some of the only people I can tell the straight up unvarnished truth to is family. “We want you to come but we’re going to be doing challenging runs. So either come on your ow, leave the kids, or get a babysitter while you’re here.”[/quote]

OP here,

I feel like people are reading this thread and getting some entirely different idea from what I am saying.  I can't tell the unvarnished truth and say "we want you to come" because I do not want my sister to come.  I have absolutely no desire to take this vacation with her and her kids, or with her resenting me because I made her leave the baby behind.  That has nothing to do with me loving her.  It's just that different people you love are suited for different kinds of activities.

I'm not worried how to tell her we're going.  I talk to my sisters all the time.  I just wanted advice on whether people think it's OK to invite my baby sister #4.

My oldest sister, the one planning the trip, would also rather not take the trip, than take it with sister #3.  She asked me what I thought about bringing sister #4.  Sister #4 has not yet been consulted, but we'll need to make that decision soon so that she can request off work.[/quote]

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