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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH could’ve written the same thing. I’m not interested in another relationship at all. No affair here. I just want peace & quiet. I want to stop bickering. I want to relax and destress. I want to be alone. DH and I don’t have anything in common anymore so we’re like passing ships most times. So isolating to be in a relationship like that.

Can you try to share some of her interest? Support her new ventures? Maybe listen?

Wish you well[/quote]

I was going to respond, but PP here said what I was going to say. What I wouldn't give to just drive into a cabin in the woods for about a month or two and sit in the quiet and read books alone. And that's all it is. Focus for 20 years has been keeping kids going, supporting dh (he has to talk about his job every.day), being emotinally available for everyone, and just fitting in quality time for yourself. Maybe she's just burned out. Ask her what would help, don't assume the worst or affair off the bat. And don't assume it's all about you honestly. I love my dh and will be with him long term....but gosh right now I want away from everything. [/quote]

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