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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand the rabid feminazi responses to the dude who "expects" sex in a relationship and stays unmarried to pursue that goal more easily.  I have to assume sex is not important nor fun for that PP, such that she can't fathom it being a dealbreaker.  I'm a feminist myself and have zero issue with what he's saying.  In fact, as a newly divorced woman, I feel exactly the same way.  If the sex dried up for no good reason, see ya.  I don't need more platonic friends.[/quote]Yeah, it really is pretty straight forward.  The reason it triggers some women here is because it hits a nerve.  These are women with delusional thoughts of their miserable husbands not being anything like me, a pretty average man with average thoughts.  It's a waste of time to tell me that no woman owes me sex, or owes me anything when she really means, I don't owe my own husband anything.  And surely, he has happily surrendered his sex life and has no thoughts of cheating or getting a divorce.  Only rapey, misogynistic, abusive, coercive men are like that.[/quote]

I think you're the one who is triggered.  Definitely not the case for us as you mention and so don't paint all responders who disagree with you with the same brush.  Reasonable people can disagree.    [/quote]Oh, have the rules changed?  Am I not allowed to make sweeping generalizations about the posters who attack me with the same?  It's all pure speculation on my part, but I'd still put money on it being accurate.  Why get so defensive about how a man thinks?  I really am just an average man telling you how it is from one who is no longer married.[/quote]

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