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[quote=Anonymous]You cannot discount that there also is some learned behavior that is different from public to private. One key difference I’ve seen is the idea that there are constraints, this can be both good and bad. Public school kids are informally taught that there are constraints everywhere. This comes from limited budgets and rationing of services, like art, music, etc. When your mindset is based on the expectation of constraints it can affect the choices you make and conception of what is possible. In contrast, private school kids are informally taught that the world is what you make it, that the only constraint is you. This can lead to higher anxiety and depression. It can also lead to poor choices of major or career paths. Sometimes kids are affluent but not generationally rich enough to make these choices which is where you end up with stories about the dentists kid that went to Brown, majored in Art History and is now living in the basement while applying for unpaid internships at museums after college. But under the right conditions, you get the Gates or Zuckerberg’s or whatever that can take risks with this self belief that they can do it because the world is theirs for the taking all along. [/quote]
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