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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are pasta meals with vegetables included in the frozen food section. Might not be as intimidating as cooking from scratch for her. Can you make big batch meals and leave them for her to reheat?[/quote] +1 start with easy but healthier-than-fast-food options. And YOU do the shopping and plan out which meal for which day. Then all she has to do is microwave it and throw it on some rice or pasta. Start with that and see how it goes, and then maybe do a meal kit one day a week with BOTH of you there. Then if she gets the hang of it, graduate to one night cooking alone and one night cooking together. And I think OP is right to be concerned. The eating habits his kids form now will stick with them. [/quote] About being concerned: I agree that he is right to be concerned, but he’s going about it the wrong way. He needs to have a better attitude both toward his wife’s approach to feeding her kids as well toward his wife as a person. He’s going to get nowhere if he just continues with “it’s your job so do it.” And divorce won’t help since presumably his wife would still be in charge of feeding the kids, at least part of the time. [/quote] This. If he keeps buying fish, avocado, rotisserie chicken and other things she clearly doesn’t like it’s not going to have a good outcome. Can you send her to the store or split the grocery shopping? In my house my husband does the Costco run, I do the regular grocery store. We both get some things of our choosing. [/quote]
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