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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. I don't want an STI that can lead to cancer. [/quote]

And when you get divorced are you going to live a sexless life? [/quote]

No, I'll use condoms.

Why do people get so upset when they realize I won't accept the same nonsense that they will?[/quote]

You realize that the STIs that cause cancer aren’t prevented by condoms, right?  [/quote]

You realize you can get testing for STIs and likely would if you’re not whoring around?!!!
Good grief! -NP[/quote]

There is no test for HPV in men.  So if you divorce your cheating DH, your risk of getting “the cancer causing” STD is going to increase as you date and have sex with different partners
 [/quote]

1. Not likely if I get regularly tested which I would do if I were sleeping around.

2. If my DH were to cheat I wouldn't have the info I need to protect myself and to have up to date testing.

3. Why are you so annoyed that my standards are different than yours? We get it, you would accept cheating, that doesn't mean we all have to.

4. I'd rather just deal with an open marriage, but men find out pretty quickly that it's easier for women to find a sex partner. Every weekend for a man in a open marriage means watching the kids while his wife has a threesome. That's why men lie. The smart ones know if the marriage were opened up he'd be on the losing side. [/quote]

Not at all annoyed by anyone's choice.  But it is ignorant to say "enjoy your STIs" if someone doesn't think they would divorce over cheating.  Since you are more likely/equally likely to be exposed to an STI while divorced and dating- testing and condom use doesn't prevent all STDs [/quote]

I didn't say "enjoy your STIs". I mentioned my perspective. I'm not tolerating potential STIs while I have to remain monogamous. It's OK if other women make different choices. You do seem upset,which is kind of weird. [/quote]

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