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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's anecdotal but the demanding women in my social circle have all been cheated on.  I don't think it helps to emasculate your DH.

In fairness, the infidelity rate is high, so it could be unrelated.  People are faithful to kind, sexually generous spouses.  Generally, demanding and kindness do not go hand in hand.[/quote]

All kinds of women get cheated on— beautiful ones, sexual ones, smart ones, dumb ones, strong-willed ones, those with great careers, those with no career, young ones, old ones,  those in happy marriages, those in unhappy marriages and on and on....

Read and listen to Esther Perel.  She’s fantastic on the subject.

Once you realize it’s about the cheater and what is going on inside THEM...and often middle age brings out the demons and suppressed childhood patterns and trauma...you can realize it’s not the spouse.  The cheater chooses this and sometimes it has absolutely zero to do with spouse, amount of sex or home life.

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NP, but thanks for this recommendation. I’m wondering if she also provides suggestions on how to identify red flags or “read the signs” of a person like the one you describe? I’m guessing the 2nd publication is the one you’re referring to on infidelity where she discusses this.[/quote]

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