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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sending a letter like that makes YOU look crazy.[/quote]

Completely depends on the tone.[/quote]

Wrong. I have gotten one of these letters when I had broken it off when an ex-fiancee to say he had been cheating on me for more than a year. The tone was nice "women sticking out for women" bull. I was really angry. I would have preferred not to get such a letter. I was very upset someone thought they had the right to but into my life. People should mind their own business. No one has any idea what goes on in someone's relationship and they have no right to "out" anyone. It is not their business. Despite her nice tone, I thought the woman was a nutcase. [/quote]

If the other woman issued a sincere apology, OP I would let it go.  However, if the other woman was nasty and took zero responsibility for her part in causing harm and distress to another woman and her family.  Zero remorse.  The least you could do is realize you contributed to the destruction of a family and that your morals were whacked for whatever reason.  When you turn it about you---"I was in a bad place", "It would have been anyone else", "Why are you trying to ruin my family (UMMM..HELLO! what do you think YOU DID to mine??), then I can see wanting to blow up her world.

An apology goes a long way to somebody that you harmed by YOUR actions, your [i]intent[/i] was to find a new husband.  If you knew about the AP's wife, researched her, stalked her....and then you get nasty when you are found out by her.  Sorry--nobody owes you anything.

All the OW had to do was say ....sorry.  It goes a long way in diffusing the situation.  When the OW gets self-righteous and combative and does not own any responsibility to the affect her actions did to others---all gloves are off.   Spouse will be notified.[/quote]

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