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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this would be a lot easier if you would just tell everyone one right out what’s “wrong” with friend that no one wants her in the group, and  why you won’t stand up to the group to try to get her in. Is she fat? A POC? A transplant from flyover? Has a job not on the approved list of white collar/ professional ones? Not a high enough HHI?

She probably has some nice qualities, like participates in school pickups or something, so everyone wants to keep her around, as long as they don’t have to actually HAVE her around.[/quote]

There is so much projection in this post I can't even. PP, start your own thread and quit bullying OP.[/quote]

+1[/quote]

+2. Holy crap.[/quote]

+1,000,000

These angry ladies have too much time on their hands. OP I relate to you. I work and do not get sucked into drama. I would distance myself from the crazy lady. We don't get invited to some things and it's fine with me. I don't believe in social engineering. I only want my kids playing with kids who want to be with them. I don't temper tantrum my way into invites.

The amount of projection and psychopathology in this thread is alarming. Let it go people. I am sure there are some moms out there trying to be cool girls, but the ones I know are just trying to survive their lives and could care less. Nobody wants to hang out with the lady who has a nervous breakdown over little things and guilt trips and makes accusations. Guess what, all you armchair psychologists accusing OP of being a wannabe cool girl, what the "friend" did can be a sign of emotional abuse and may be a red flag she could have a personality disorder. OP is NOT responsible for this woman's happiness. OP did not deserve the anger. It is not OP's job to tell these people who to invite to a birthday party.  One of my kids has autism and I found out there was social engineering to get him invited to a birthday party I would be livid. He does not need pity. He has friends. I don't expect anyone to manipulate things for me.[/quote]

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