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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Back in my 30’s I had three AP’s over an 8 year period. We were raising 2 DC’s, parenting well, building careers and having regular, if uninspired, sex. 
I’m the kind of guy that doesn’t seek and rarely has had sex for the sake of having sex. I fell in love with all 3 AP’s and the affairs ended when the relationships reached the point where I either had to leave DW or end the relationships. I ended them and it was painful. Divorced a few years later, remarried and been monogamous since. 
In retrospect, I think the relationship with DW was missing something which is why I was open to an AP.  [/quote]

I also wonder if this was your ability to not cope with all of the adulting you had to do in your previous marriage rather than missing something in your previous marriage.  You will always have ups and downs in your marriage and to think that you cheated because something was missing isn’t really correct.  It could be your inability to handle life issues.  I’m wondering how long you have been remarried.  Give it about 10 years and 2 kids to see what happens in this marriage.[/quote]

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