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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your are 32 you look for men 46+[/quote]

Lol most 40 yr old women I know look for guys under 40 and of attractive they get their pick[/quote]

Those guys will bang her but not marry her.[/quote]

Oh have to add we broke up once and he was dating a 28 yr old and a 32 yr old. He dropped them both to date me again.[/quote]

DP here. Of course it depends on the person in question. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that you bring more to the table than OP.

Lots of divorced women in their 30's, 40's, 50's, etc marry successful, good men. Many of these women have children too. At a certain age, it's suspect if a woman doesn't have kids yet. I know lots of divorced UMC  / some UC men who married divorced women in their 40's and 50's with kids. These men almost always chose women who were decent looking but not drop dead gorgeous. These women brought a lot to the table though. OP needs to work on herself before she can land one of these kinds of good guys. She has problems with females and that's a problem. How is she going to support her husband's professional social life, become friends with the parents at their kids' schools and volunteering, set a good model for kids, have a social life of her own? When I look at the women the successful guys married, most of them bring this to the table. OP also seems very passive in her own life and that's just not attractive to the right kind of guy.

Some people post on here trying to excoriate women for not being hot enough, but honestly from what I've seen IRL a woman just needs to be attractive enough. No decent guy is going to just marry the hottest women he can get. The good guys prioritize character, personality, etc. Well off men might gladly support a woman financially, but typically they expect the woman to bring a lot to the table too. OP needs to take a hard look at what she's giving, not just hoping to get. I'm married so no skin in the game.[/quote]

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