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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you legally prevent someone from returning to their own home. Wouldn't that be an illegal eviction?[/quote]

I think tenancy laws are different when the housing is provided as a benefit of employment, but I imagine any covid-related stay on evictions would probably apply to employment-related housing as well, so OP very well may not be able to bar the nanny from he house without significant legal consequences.[/quote]

OP she’s packing up and excited to leave. This is totally her decision [/quote]

Not completely. You had told her that if she leaves she can not return so her options are either to never leave the house or to leave and not return. She is choosing option 2 but her options were very limited.[/quote]

She leaves twice a day
she goes running in the mornings and she goes for a drive in the evenings [/quote]

And how many discussions/guilt trips did you try to lay on her about her leaving the property to run? I think you are both better off just parting ways.[/quote]

Op is looking for an indentured servant who will do as told.  The nanny didn't cut it - so out on the street she goes.  Op's "safety" above ALL else.[/quote]

I don't see that at all. I see a young woman who's terribly bored and wants to go party with her group of friends on the weekends. [/quote]

There is nothing in this to say she wants to go and party. I know a lot of young adults in their early twenties and I don't know a single one that hasn't seen anyone except their employer for the last 6 weeks. They either live with with family or with roommates or have been seeing a boyfriend / girlfriend or have been interacting with a small number of friends (1-3). None that I know are partying at all but they are interacting with people outside their employer. [/quote]

That’s not following stay-in-place orders.[/quote]

She is not on house arrest and she can leave the house and visit with friends if she deems that necessary.  Which she clearly does.  And I can not blame her even one tiny bit for needing to get away from Op.[/quote]
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Groceries and outside (solo) exercise, yes.  Visiting friends, no.[/quote]

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